نصيحة من اخ يحبك Advice from a Brother Love You

لا تكن سلفاكيرآ في تصرفاتك، ولا بشيرآ في مخططاتك ..لا تكن موسفينيآ في أراءك ولا موغابيآ في تعاملك .. كن جيفارا مع الاخرين ونيلسون مانديلا مع اعدائك .. كن مارنزيآ لوطنك وابرهام لينكن لشعبك .. كن جون سينا في اخلاقك وماك تايسون في تصرفاتك ومحمد علي كلاي في مشاعرك ... كن شابآ طموحآ غير مسييس ولا نسخة صينية مزيفة .. اعطي المستقبل المشرق فرصة اخيرة انبذ ( بضم البأ) القبلية واوقف الدفاع عن الذين باعوا القضية واعطوا البلد بكف من ذهب الي الغرباء ...وإذا ليس لديك ضميرآ ام لا تعلم بما يجيش في بلادنا انظر الي اطفالنا في توريت وبيبور و بحر الغزال انظر الي فتياتنا في جونقلي واعالي النيل وبانتيو انظر الي نساءنا في واو وجوبا، رمبيك، يرول، واراب انظر الي شعبنا في ابيي انظر حولك وضع نفسك في مكاننا ثم احكم وإن ادركته بكل هذا وما زال ضميرك ساكنآ وأعماك الولائم والاجواء البيزنطية لن يتبقي لي ما اقول سوئ يرحمك الله والرب اعطي والرب اخذ فليكن اسم الرب مبارك .. إنا لله وإنا إليه راجعون 

بقلم: ال ساندي جوك

The translation 

I have write this in Arabic when i was so pissed of from some of our African leaders, it has been written in a funny way.

It's like an advice that don't be Salva Kiir ( S.Sudan's President) in your behavior, neither Al Bashir ( Sudan's President) on you plans, Don't be Yoweri Museveni (Uganda's President) on your ideas and never act like Robert Mugabe (Zimbabwe's President).

Be like Che Guevara with others and treat your enemies like Nelson Mandela, take the responsibility for your country and defend it like the way  Marines do for their country and even better,Become Abraham Lincoln for your people, You still can be stronger then John Cena by your moral and Mark Tyson in keeping positive attitude, Be Mohamed Ali in your words and feelings, 

Be an ambitious and never be taken by the wrong crew. Don't be weak like a Chinese product, give your dreams a chance to be real. Discard the tribalism, and stop advertising about those corrupt politicians & give out our country to a Foreigners with a golden plat, but if you lack Conscience and try to pretend that have no idea about what is happening in our home. Look to our kids in Torit and Bibor and Bhar Al Gazal. look at our young girls in Jongolie and Upper Nile even Bantiu. Imagine our women in Waw, Juba, Yarol aand Warrab. See how are our people being treated in Abeyie, just look around and position your self where we are,And if you still motionless and the stolen money make you blind without sense of responsibility towards your fellows citizens. I will just have to be speechless rather then saying nothing, I will assume you are died and say "God gives, God takes, Praise the name of God". We are from God and to him we are return.   

Am so Proud to be African and from deep Africa South Sudan

In this very sadness moment, when you see a brother killing his own brother, don't blame the politics or politician. But blame your self nobody else, because you give up your values and believes, and throw them for sake of money. I was feeling really so down after what it's happening back in my country South Sudan, and loosing our loving one in daily bases, you can't even explain how do you feel and how to react. sometimes i want to give but i always remember that God is good all the time, while i was browsing i found this Beautiful poetry and it is really made my day, and i decided to share it with you.

My Country is for Love

So say its valleys

Where ancient rivers flow the full circle of life

Under the proud eye of birds adorning the sky

My Country is for Peace

So says the silent veld

With reptiles caressing the surface

With elegant motions glittering their pride

My Country is for Joy

So talk the mountains

With baboons hopping from boulder to boulder

In the majestic delight of cliffs and peaks

My Country is for Health and Wealth

See the blue of the sea

And beneath, the jewels of fish

Deep under the bowels of soil

Hear the golden voice of a miners praise

For my country

My country is for Unity

See the millions

Feel their passion

Their hands are joined together

Look, there is hope in their eyes

We shall celebrate. 

I hope the trust things will work out very soon, and love & peace be upon us, may God bless South Sudan 

Bullying and how to stop it

How to stop Bullying:

 It’s not that easy to fight bullying. In such a ways to stop it first you need to act very wisely, yes it’s really hard to handle it when it gets to the point, but the main reason for the bully is to make you nervous so he/she could continually proceed. When you hear or see bullying take immediately action by stopping it & talking to the bully, let him/her knows that bullying is unacceptable. Everyone wants and deserve a self of belonging give the person being bullied an offer to be a friend. It should be a full orientation about bullying and how it’s affect others life, Sometimes bullying stops quickly, but doing nothing means it may continue until someone is seriously upset or hurt. That could be you, or the bullies may find someone else to pick on.

Never blame yourself it is not your fault if you are being bullied. Don’t try to deal with the problem on your own there is nothing wrong with asking for help. Avoid hitting the people who are bullying you the action might end up being accused of bullying yourself. Exaggerating won’t work always tell the truth about what has exactly happened. If a small part of what you are saying is shown to be untrue then everything else will be in doubt. Try not to hid what is happen to the adults you trust keeping things secret is the bullies’ biggest weapon. That is why they go to so much trouble to stop you telling.

What is likely to happen is:

Talk to someone you trust, such as a teacher, parent, older relative or friend. Be persistent. If the first person you talk to doesn’t help, don’t give up. Speak to someone else. If you can, write down everything that has been said or done to hurt you. Be careful only to write down things that have really happened. Try to write down how you feel. When you have found someone you can trust, discuss what you have written with that person. Whoever you talk to, ask that person not to do anything without telling you about it first. You have a right to know what is being done for you and to say whether you think it is a good idea or not. If you find it difficult to talk to an adult, ask one of your friends to go with you, or ask someone to talk to an adult for you.

You do not have to be the one being bullied yourself to act. People who bully also get fun and encouragement from the reaction of bystanders. If you see someone else being bullied and keep silence and quiet, the bullies may think that you approve of what they are doing. If you know someone who is being bullied, make sure that the lecturer knows what is going on. Doing nothing have no another explanation only it might be your turn next, you can help by being a friend because those who get bullied feel hopeless and alone, show solidarity by assuring your kindness and care. Take a part in your University’s anti-bullying strategy, such as rising the bullying issues with the student counseling center or within the class room, remember, bullying is wrong and totally unacceptable. Don’t ignore it. Ask for help. If everyone works together, we can stop bullying.

Denzel Washington the Man of all time

Mr. Washington have given the Art a meaning. he is inspiring me in daily basis, Furthermore, Denzel isn't just an actor, is an Ambassador for peace as well. When I watch him acting, he gives me the faith and courage that nothing impossible, it's only requires a hard work.

On one of my Favorite Movies of all time is John Q, it was so emotional and i feel my self and ask if i could have the same courage if it was me. I know is not that easy to be an actor, you have to show that you can handle whatever have been given to you, and have the courage therefore you might be credit and step forward. You must be very comfortable in your own skin, and focus on your dreams, believe in your self and feel a supper start.

BUDDHISM AND WHERE DOES IT STARTED FROM

Sometimes is good to have ideas about the other religions, which are exist in the global, here i give you a bit about the Buddhism. The evolution of Buddhism started in a small kingdom what is now northern India that was ruled by a tribe called the Shakyas.  The head of this people, and the king of this country, was named Shuddodana Gautama, and he had a son, Siddhartha Gautama who is known as Gautama Buddha (563-483) and who was also eventually known as the enlightened one. The Lord Buddha as he is respectfully referred to, was born into the Kshatriya caste to a Queen and a King and was to inherit an entire kingdom and this also meant that he was raised with all the comforts of royalty. Siddhartha grew up to be a strong and handsome young man.  As a prince of the warrior caste, he trained in the arts of war.  When it came time for him to marry, he won the hand of a beautiful princess of a neighbouring kingdom by besting all competitors at a variety of sports. She was called Yashodhara, and they were married when both were 16 years old. While he continued living in the luxury of his palaces, he grew increasing restless and curious about the world away from the palace walls. At the age of 29, Siddhartha came to realize that he could not be happy living as he had been.  He had discovered suffering, and wanted more than anything to discover how one might overcome suffering. He gave away his rich clothing, cut his long hair, and went away to study with two gurus but after mastering their practices, he found their teachings lacking and sought further. In the town of Bodh Gaya, Siddhartha decided that he would sit under a certain fig tree as long as it would take for the answers to the problem of suffering to come.  He sat there for many days, first in deep concentration to clear his mind of all distractions, then in mindfulness meditation, opening himself up to the truth. As he rested under the Bodhi tree (Tree of Enlightenment) he received revelations on why people suffer – love, success, wealth and power. During his time meditating under the holy tree, he accumulated much wisdom and on a full moon Siddhartha finally understood the answer to the question of suffering and became the Buddha, which means “he who is awake.” He learned that ignoring the causes of suffering kept people from liberation (attaining Nirvana) and within a short period he eventually he attained enlightenment and freed himself from doubts of suffering. The attainment of higher understanding could be seen by everyone and his teachings spread as well as his followers and the Lord Buddha began to lead others to path of enlightenment. The Lord Buddha had achieved his enlightenment at the age of 35 and he would teach throughout northeast India for another 45 years.  When the Buddha was 80 years old, he told his friend and cousin Ananda that he would be leaving them soon.  And so it came to be that in Kushinagara, not a hundred miles from his homeland, he ate some spoiled food and became very ill. He went into a deep meditation under a grove of sala trees and gently passed into the cosmos.

The Lord Buddha taught that people could attain Nirvana through the eight-fold teachings that are: right belief, right compassion, right honesty, right resolve, right speech, right action, right effort and right meditation. Buddhists believe that there is no absolute being and that even gods are subject to laws of growth and decay and that essentially the universe is becoming rather than merely being. Prior to the Lord Buddha’s physical death, an order of monks was introduced in which upon admission one was required to attend training after which one would take vows of chastity and poverty and continue to live life peacefully, meditating and focusing on one’s own personal growth. Throughout his life and teachings, adaptations and changes were made to the Order and today there exists doctrine that has been passed down through the centuries.